Social Steps To See You By Opening The "I" Of Mind

Every true genius, every creative mind hasnovel possibilities of creation. It is a beginning, and
known the dark night of searching for a truth oneit is a patient listening to your children, to their
could sense yet not quite grasp nor express, hasneeds, their games, and their joys, be they
felt the compelling desire to birth into full view thephysical children, or virtual children, as in your
challenging inkling that something more is there,thoughts, i.e. your stories, your creations... Not to
and has sat in the disheartening unease thatresist: Become willing to be your child, and even
precedes the dawn of clarity and revelation. Thatto be your mother, your father!
is in itself the creative process, familiar to all those6. Observation and Deception
that mother. Shall I say "matter"? As it is theHave you ever had to make a choice between
nature of a paradox to be strange, it can take atwo options that were equally desirable to you?
while for the ego-mind to fully surrender to it. AndWasn't that the absolute best? The key to such
it is this very acceptance that allows for adeliciousness is the word "equally." When in a
quantum leap, for a change that is the only fooddiscussion, can you make that each and every
to satisfy the soul on its path to evolution. Thepoint is all right? Can you live from the
next ten levels are offered to promote suchperspective that all is good, and all God, that when
nourishment, and growth.a door closes, seven open? Such is the secret of
1. Force and Powera quiet mind, to be observing the equanimity, the
What is true power, and where does force comeexacted fairness of the universe. Observation,
from? This question brings forth another; whyrather than imagination. Observation, rather than
people fear change so much? I remain fascinatedmemory. Observation rather than reaction.
by how a part of "the story" keeps on beingObservation rather than assumption. Can you feel
enacted, making me choose to be right, ratherthe peace of that?
than happy. At that moment, all inner power is7. Commitments and Truth
gone, as I think I know something... Hey, I amPossibly languages were born because we were
right, here! And consequently, I am no longernot ready to be fully honest with ourselves and
"right here," and have lost the source of my ownthus each other. Possibly languages had for primal
power... The here and now is gone, and gone also,purpose to be a substitute for a too revealing
the "hear and know!" It has been said thattelepathy. From words came contracts, laws, and
education is power. What would you learn if youcommitments. The mind loves to fight change, be
did not get everything so soon?it a change of heart, or a change of agreements.
2. Fixation and FreedomWhen will I learn that disruption always come, that
However it may sound as if spoken in theit is a sacred, and an inherent part of life and
present, the story is told from the past. "This isgrowth? Will I be true to my vows and my laws,
what God did for me when he took me out ofin the understanding that "until death do us part"
Egypt..." Where is my attention? Is it fixed on thedoes not concern the death of the body, but the
suffering of having been a slave (the known,) ortransformation of the spirit (change of mind and
is it on the passover (the unknown?) Fixedchange of heart)?
thoughts and creative thinking are contradictory.8. Hum, Hum! (Humor and Humility)
How inspired would you be if the past did notYes, this is worth clearing one's throat! Whether
longer exist, if it past-over? Are you willing to sitone looks at the mythologies of humanity or the
with uncertainty, and truly leave the Egypt offindings of social sciences, we are all on a journey
your enslaved mind? 'Freedom's just anotherto become conscious that goes from egocentrism
word for nothing left to lose..."(it's all about me!) to cosmocentrism, where one
3. Believing and Seeingeventually feels like a tiny speck in the cosmos.
It is all a paradox, from what we call "senses,"Such humility is bliss, and is the biblical "peace that
"mind," "body," "soul..." Exactly what are we talkingpasseth understanding". It is a place beyond
about, and whom can we trust? Shakespearepretense, a place of radical purity. It is light, and
said, "We see with the mind and not the eye,"fun! It is ho-hum, as in humble, and humorous!
while St. Exupery proposed: "It is only with the9. Inter-developmental and Enter Growth.
heart that one can see rightly; what is essential isHave you noticed how you can walk into a room
invisible to the eye." How can I, how can eyewhere people have argued and feel it? Have you
educate my senses to truly see, hear, touch,also noticed how attractive quietness is? Animals
smell, or even taste what is, rather than what "I"know it, who intuitively go to a quiet heart...
think is. Looking for a piece of paper while thinkingEverything is one, and interdependent. Thus I
it is lost and thus not seeing is a commoncannot grow without growing you, and without
experience for many of us. How then can "I" livebeing grown by you, and vice versa. Amazing,
in amazing grace, i.e. stop validating my belief thatisn't it? It is as if ideas, not unlike plants, grow
I am lost, and instead look and live finding?better when transplanted into another mind. Thus
4. Victimhood and Forgivenessthe question: Do you want to grow with me? I
At times the mind feels to me as a messy closet.like your leaves and your be-liefs too! Relating is
I hold on to old resentments, like I do a dresstranscendence: practice the emerald secret of
that is no longer in style or does not fit thegrowth, by including the wellbeing of others in
person I am aspiring to be now. Do you knowyour own!
what I am talking about? A closed (clothed) mind10. Expansion and Expansion
is not healthy, but clogged up, in that it cannotAs we come to an end, we also come to an 'and'.
circulate the blood of life freely. Open up yourAs taught by the Sufi Masters, "You think
closet, and forgive all the hurts, the betrayals, thebecause you understand one you must
suffering... They are not in fashion anymore!understand two, because one and one make two.
For-give what is blocking your flow. No one is toBut you must also understand 'and'." From
blame. It is not "their" fault; you had to agree tointer-developmental come more choices, and
what happened, for it to happen. Forgive yourselftherefore more successes, and more happiness,
and choose to be atoned and at-one now!and more life, and more fulfillment, and more
5. Let in God and Letting Go.creativity, which 'fruitfuls' and multiplies the "and"
After such cleansing, a real perspective shiftad infinitum... Indeed, there will always be another
occurs, which some call a turning, a repenting. It isway to look at it, and that is the wealth, the
such a splendid moment to witness the mindluscious abundance of life, seeing what every
relinquishing its tight control, its smothering holdbody sees, AND seeing what no one had ever
and surrenders to goodness, truth, and beauty.seen before! That is pure beauty, a beauty which
Like a breath of fresh air, it is a return tolies in the "I" of the beholder.
innocence; it is the candor of the open canvas to