| When spouses become dissatisfied with one | | | | created in your mind. You dream of this perfect |
| another, they may begin to wonder if there is | | | | life with someone else, a perfect life that doesn't |
| something better out there for them. They may | | | | exist. Every marriage has its issues. What |
| begin to wonder if they married the wrong man | | | | separates the successful marriages from the |
| or the wrong woman. | | | | unsuccessful ones are that the two people |
| The other day I saw a bill board promoting a | | | | involved understand that true love means |
| website that encourages married people to seek | | | | sacrifice, maturity, patience and endurance. It is |
| for extra-marital affairs if they are not getting | | | | the acceptance of your spouse despite their |
| what they want from their spouse. Such is the | | | | flaws. |
| value our world now places on the sacred institute | | | | Your marriage can be that grass that appears |
| of marriage. | | | | greener on the other side if only you would water |
| People are encouraged to believe that they can | | | | it trim it and look after it. |
| go and find someone better if they are | | | | Successful marriages don't happen by accident. |
| experiencing challenges in their marriage rather | | | | They are a product of hard work and effort. |
| than stay in their marriage and fix things. | | | | Nothing good comes easy but there is a reward |
| As a result some married couples are looking at | | | | for those who persevere. You can make the |
| and are tempted by the grass which seems | | | | grass of your marriage greener by developing the |
| greener on the other side, not knowing that the | | | | romance in your marriage, learning how to relate |
| only reason that grass seems greener is because | | | | to your spouse intimately, learning how to be |
| the owner took care of and nurtured it. | | | | sensitive to the needs of your spouse, learning |
| A wife that thinks the grass is greener on the | | | | how to tolerate the flaws of your spouse and |
| other side may begin to desire another woman's | | | | making up in your mind that your marriage will |
| husband, likewise a husband that thinks the grass | | | | succeed and not fail. |
| the greener on the other side might start to | | | | Make up in your mind that there is no other |
| desire another mans wife. They begin to envy | | | | option for you, settle it in your mind that there is |
| what someone else has. | | | | no one better out there for you, your spouse is |
| Upon close inspection, you might discover that the | | | | the right person for you. Work on your marriage |
| grass that seems greener on the other side really | | | | support and love your spouse unconditionally and |
| isn't; it's really an illusion, a fantasy that you have | | | | your grass will become the envy of all. |