It's So Hard to Say Goodbye - Why You Shouldn't Take Your Employee's Resignation Personally

p>I've heard many horror stories fromto assess what their experience was like while
employees who have notified their supervisorsworking with your company.
that they are resigning from their jobs:When meeting with your employee, be open and
When I handed in my resignation letter, my bossreceptive to their feedback, whether you agree
stopped talking to me.with what they are saying or not. Use your
I thought he liked me, but when I told him I wasemployee's exit to learn more about what has
resigning from my job, he made my life a hell onworked well in terms of their actual job and what
earth.things were detrimental to doing his or her best
Everything seemed to be going well in my job butwork. Learn about their perspective about the
when I told him that I was leaving, he fired me.company; everything from their thoughts about
Do any of these stories resonate with you?company benefits to policies and procedures.
Some managers have difficulty with accepting theRemember that not everyone will feel
fact that an employee chooses to leave. Forcomfortable answering your questions. Get their
some, an employee's decision to end theirpermission to meet with you for an exit interview
employment seems to represent some type of ain advance, and let the employee know that their
hidden message or indictment on theirresponse is voluntary. Be sure that they are
effectiveness as a manager.aware that the goal is to learn what you can do
Employees leave for a variety of reasons.differently or better.
Sometimes it's for career advancement.No matter what the reason is for your
Sometimes it's to make more money. Someemployee's resignation, it's incumbent upon you as
employees leave their jobs to go back to schoola supervisor to separate your emotional response
full time.from the reality of the situation. Use an
Sometimes, employees leave because they haveemployee's resignation as an opportunity to learn
issues with their supervisor, or the company.what you can do to make any necessary
That's why exit interviews can be an invaluablechanges that will only enhance the experience for
tool that can help you to understand why yourall of your staff.
employee decided to leave their job and, help you