Humane Firing - Make Dignity and Compassion Part of the Termination Process

Firing someone, regardless of the reason, is oneyour separation procedures, give the employee
of the most difficult tasks a manager has to do.that same information in writing and bring the
And if it isn't done right, the consequences canmeeting to a close.
range from mildly inconvenient (an uncomfortableIf the employee wants to talk, resist the
display of emotion by the departing employee) totemptation to interrupt or contradict. Listen, thank
catastrophic (an expensive wrongful terminationthe employee for sharing their perspective, and
lawsuit or even violence resulting in serious injurygently reiterate your position. Be as
and possibly death).nonconfrontational as possible. You don't need to
Employees who are not performing up to yourbe a winner, and you do not want the terminated
needs and expectations should be givenemployee to feel like a loser. Don't let the
appropriate counseling and warnings with timeconversation get personal; stick to the business
limits and a performance improvement plan. Makereason for your decision, avoid emotion and
it clear that failure to meet the plan within apersonal attacks, and direct the employee's
reasonable time will result in termination, so thereattention to the future without making any
is no surprise if and when it reaches that point.promises you won't or can't keep.
When an employee commits an offense youIt's a good idea to have two managers present
have defined as cause for immediate termination,during the separation meeting. If your operation is
such as theft, gross insubordination or workplaceso small that this isn't possible, bring in a
violence, you must respond immediately. If youconsultant or even your attorney. The person
have effectively communicated your policies, thedoing the actual firing should be the employee's
firing will not be a surprise. In any case, it's a goodimmediate supervisor. The second person serves
idea to have an attorney who practicesas a witness and may possess interpersonal skills
employment law take a look at your policies andthat are helpful in the situation.
review the employee's file before you fire theRemember that a major concern of many people
worker.who are fired is what will be said about them
Always conduct the termination process withlater, so assure them that you will treat the
dignity, compassion and in accordance with allreasons behind the termination as confidential. The
applicable laws and your own internal procedures.details should not be discussed with other
As obvious as that may sound, it frequentlyemployees except the management team
doesn't happen. Nightmarish stories of peopleinvolved and others with a legitimate need to
being fired during phone conversations and evenknow. This not only benefits the departing
by e-mail abound. But what's easier for you mayemployee, but demonstrates to your remaining
well make the experience more painful andstaff that you will treat all employees with
humiliating for the employee, and those emotionsrespect and dignity.
generate anger and the potential for retaliation.Offer terminated employees the opportunity to
Doing the deedcollect their personal belongings privately without
Certainly there is never a "good time" to firehaving to face their coworkers. That may mean
somebody, but early in the week is better thanscheduling a time for them to return after normal
the day before a weekend or holiday. Firing onworking hours. Whether or not the employee
Friday afternoon gives people the chance to stewchooses to pack up their belongings immediately
and let their anger build over the weekend; firingfollowing the separation interview or later, it's a
on Monday morning lets them immediately directgood idea to escort them through that process
their energies to recovery and re-employment.and off the premises. This protects both the
Choose a private place where others cannot hearcompany and the employee from acts or
or see the meeting, and do not allow anyaccusations of theft and sabotage.
interruptions. Keep the tone cordial andFinally, remember that though they may have
professional, but get to the point quickly. Focus onbeen fired, they didn't die. Depending on the tone
a single valid business reason for the termination.of the relationship and degree of friendship that
Make it clear that you are not counseling ormay have developed, it may be appropriate for
negotiating, that the decision has been irrevocablyyou or others in the organization to send a card
made. You want the employee to understand theor note or even make a phone call from time to
reason for the termination, but don't gloat, blame,time while the former employee works through a
place guilt or stretch out the processdifficult transition.
unnecessarily. Then move on to an explanation of