| Is your spouse cheating on you? Do you observe | | | | a call from a number not known to you? If |
| unexpected change in your partner's behavior? Is | | | | possible, try to check the call history on his/her |
| your partner spending more time at workplace? | | | | cell phone. |
| Have you noticed any change in their routine at | | | | 3. Surprise your partner with a romantic dinner or |
| home? Most of the people will agree that these | | | | a movie in spare time and notice his reactions. If |
| are the classic signs of a cheating spouse. | | | | he is having any extra-marital affair, he might not |
| However, you cannot claim that a partner is | | | | respond positively to surprise because you did not |
| cheating on you based on these instances alone. | | | | tell him in advance! |
| Same happened in the case of John and Cathy. | | | | 4. If your partner stops sharing with you certain |
| John noticed sudden changes in the behavior of | | | | things he usually did earlier, you definitely have a |
| Cathy and started spying on her. But, Cathy was | | | | reason to find out what is going on in his/her life |
| actually given new responsibilities and roles at | | | | behind your back. Such partners usually tend to |
| work place, and this required overtime and | | | | change their email passwords frequently and |
| frequent business trips. If John asked her, she | | | | refuse to share them at any cost. They might |
| could have explained everything. But a small | | | | also make it a point to always delete call history |
| mistake by John and lack of communication | | | | and computer history on their cell phone and |
| between the two ended their relationship. | | | | computer. It is, therefore, very essential to keep |
| Here are a few points to help you guess more | | | | a note of all this. |
| accurately if your partner is cheating on you or | | | | 5. Most importantly, you will get a feeling that |
| not: | | | | their basic personality has changed. A sudden |
| 1. Notice carefully how your partner responds | | | | change in mood for no reasons is a clear sign of |
| when asked about the overtime or a business | | | | infidelity. |
| trip. A partner who is cheating tends to speak | | | | Although, the above guidelines will help you find |
| something fake and cooks up false stories, and | | | | out whether or not your partner is cheating on |
| this can be clearly noticed it in his/her eyes and | | | | you, it is always advisable to discuss your feelings |
| body language. | | | | with your partner and let him/her know that you |
| 2. Take a note of your partner's unusual behavior. | | | | feel betrayed. Things can always be sorted out |
| Does he/she not take phone calls in front of you? | | | | and a break up or a divorce is certainly not a |
| How is the mood and behavior after receiving | | | | good solution. |
| that call? Does your partner leave the room after | | | | |