| This topic, advice for troubled marriage has | | | | I hope you get my point here and if you were |
| appeared in millions of books worldwide but still | | | | looking for any other type of advice for troubled |
| people are looking for the right one. I am no | | | | marriages then you are in the wring place. |
| expert but I have come to realize one thing that | | | | You need to take time to learn as much as you |
| most people are afraid to say. That is, you need | | | | can about your spouse. That takes talking to him |
| to invest money into your marriage. | | | | or her and buying books and resources that will |
| I know that sounds a bit off but it is the truth. | | | | help you understand relationships better. There is |
| Let me ask you the following questions before I | | | | no way you will wake up one day and find |
| unpack my argument.o How much have you | | | | yourself knowing everything there is to know |
| spent on your looks this year?o How much have | | | | about marriage. |
| you invested in your children (school fees, savings, | | | | Do not try to re-invent the wheel just learn from |
| well fare etc.)o How much have you invested in | | | | others who have been there and also take the |
| your career (college fees, seminars, books etc.) | | | | time to see what experts have to say on the |
| I am sure you have probably spent hundreds of | | | | subject. The truth is your marriage is unique and |
| thousands. | | | | no one can really offer you tailor made advice but |
| All of those things form part of your life and you | | | | at least you will have a base to start on. |
| have done the right thing by spending money to | | | | I am not trying to sell you anything here but I am |
| keep them going. Now, how much have you | | | | telling you something no one else will. The day I |
| spent investing in your marriage? Except for the | | | | got this "revelation" was the day my own |
| money spent on your wedding. | | | | marriage started taking shape. |